1Bring a decision, not a to-do
You'll still get the concrete help — a rewrite, a number, a script — but attached to judgment about why, which is the part you're actually here for.
"Rewrite my website headline."
"I'm deciding between leading with price or leading with experience — here's my current headline and my worry about each. What am I not seeing?"
2Show your thinking first
The best questions follow a shape: here's my situation (with real numbers), here's what I've tried, here's what I think the answer is — now tell me where I'm wrong. A board can only be as sharp as the picture you give it. One-line questions get generic answers.
3Ask for judgment on your plan, not a plan built for you
"Build me a marketing plan" makes the board do your homework — and you won't own the result. Three experienced people attacking your plan from three angles is worth far more.
"Here's my plan to reach 25 customers in 90 days. Which part fails first?"
4Expect disagreement — it's the product
Your advisors answer independently and will sometimes give you different numbers or opposite advice. That's not a malfunction; real boards disagree. Your job as the owner is to hear the reasoning, decide, and say what you decided. Nobody else gets that job.
5Close the loop
A board compounds. Start your next session by reporting what you did with the last session's advice — what worked, what didn't, what the numbers said. Advisors who know what happened give sharply better counsel than advisors starting cold. If you were asked to bring a number, bring it.
If your question could be an instruction to an assistant, reframe it until it's a decision you're wrestling with.
"Do this for me" gets you an employee's output. "Here's my thinking — challenge it" gets you a board.
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